That's why you don't need a "new version" of yourself at the start of the year 💝
Steffi Engel
That's why you don't need a "new version" of yourself at the start of the year 💝
The start of the year often feels like a blank page. Everywhere you look, you see lists, resolutions, to-do lists, new beginning mantras, and well-meaning advice on how to become "better," "more productive," "more athletic," or "more efficient" in the new year. It's as if the world expects us to completely reinvent ourselves. But something important is easily forgotten: You don't have to become a new version of yourself to be valuable. 💛
Perhaps you've carried a heavy burden in recent months, more than anyone else could see. Perhaps you've had small successes that went unnoticed in the daily grind. Perhaps there were also moments when you simply had to persevere. None of this means you need to be "improved." Rather, it shows how much strength you already possess!
The beginning of the year isn't a competition or a reset button meant to transform you into a different person. It's a transition that allows you to pause briefly. Instead of trying to reinvent yourself, ask yourself questions like: What nourishes me? What do I want less of? What makes me feel comfortable? It's not about being higher, faster, or better, but about being more authentic and honest with yourself.
You are allowed to take breaks without justifying them. You are allowed to have goals that are small or unfinished. You are allowed to let go of things that tire you and hold onto wishes that give you hope. And you are allowed to choose that this new year begins not with pressure, but with peace.
If you'd like to take something with you into the new year, perhaps this thought: You just need to remember that you are enough – now, today, and not only when you've achieved something. ✨